Showing posts with label facebook. Show all posts
Showing posts with label facebook. Show all posts

Wednesday, 1 August 2012

Calm your mind and make friends



Something i have always struggled with is our inability to find peace within ourselves, everyone strives for it but few seem to find it.
WHY?

What is that makes it so difficult to find inner peace or be able to calm our minds and bodies, surely it cant be that difficult.
Perhaps it is, can we find true peace in todays society what with social networking, bbming (not a real word i am sure), texting, tweeting, liking, sharing, +1ing (another fake word), tumbling and the rest the list seems endless.

If we were to be honest with ourselves do we need all these things in our life, i know what your saying but how do I keep in touch with friends and family, what happened to paper and pen or a phone call?
Yes it does make it easier and sharing photos and funny videos from around the globe is great, and i would not want to stiffle that.

But is there a bigger picture here, is our inability to switch of our minds and focus on who we are the problem, are we constantly looking for ways to satisfy our cravings or need for acceptance, is this a particulary western culture that has festered or is it a worldwide problem?

Consider the UK and Japan, in the Uk over 77% of homes in 2011 had intenet access, consider my household we have 3 pc's, 1 Playstation and 4 mobile phones all capable of internet access, do we need all this?
Consider Japan, in 2010 only 56% of the population were accessing sns (social networking sites), i couldnt find stats for 2011 but still a massive difference.

The big question here is i suppose is this what is preventing us from find joy/peace, inner calm whatever you want to call it?
How can it?

Think about it though were you a shy kid in school, now i am thinking about back before sns or the mass popularity of it, how did you overcome this, communication, personal communication not sitting typing or texting but rather to ingage with people, activate that part of the brain that gives us that self satisfaction, that friendship that can only come from speaking to someone face to face.

I dont think it is our nature anymore to wanrt to speak face to face anymore, I do think this is partly down to sns, to want to form real relationships, to want to communicate on a personal level. Can you imagine Jesus trying to feed the 5,000 "just a minute i need to check in", or " better setup a event for this so peeps know where i am", i dont think so.

But why are other culutures different why does it not effect everyone the same way, why would individuals risk their lives for others, people they dont even know, the example i am thinking of is during the Fukushima Daiichi nuclear plant disaster, these workmen went in and attempted to clean up the radiation so as to prevent complete meltdown, the names of these workmen, unknown - they did not feel a need to publicise who they were or plaster it all over FB, Twitter, google+ you get the idea.

They dont need 1000 followers liking them to feel joy or peace in what they did, they just did it for the love of mankind.
The japanesse seemd to have this knack for always have a bright positive attitude, a can do manner and willingness to help attitude, if a teacher does not turn up for class then the kids will take the class, if you get caught in the rain with no coat a shop owner will lend you his umbrella and trust you will bring it back.

Is it not time we started to devleop this same attitude?

How?







Wednesday, 25 July 2012

Respect my privacy

Ok so we have all seen the funny comments and had a good laugh when someone gets fraped, now if you don't know what that is, to be fraped is when someone gets access to your social network accounts and posts some funny or offensive comments.

You know the type :
"I like men"
"I like balls in my face, when playing tennis"
you get the idea anything to make you look stupid.

Now up until this point i found it fairly funny and even had a giggle at a few myself but now i have been  subjected to some fraping i don't think using the word abused is to strong a word, i have been abused and my trust in human nature has been lost.

Here i am being a kind hearted soul that i am and letting my best mate using my Samsung Galaxy Tablet 10.1 only to be suprised when i get a text saying i have updated my status, oh now have I.

Of course it was not a malicious comment and if i was reading someone else's that had been fraped i would of found it funny i am sure, but i feel slightly abused and let down by this friend (tongue in cheek).

Is not about time that we respected each others privacy and remember when someone is kind enough to lend you something then dont abuse my trust.

Please RESPECT MY PRIVACY.

end of rant

Well actually the ranting will never end - till next time